Here’s our monthly motivator from our July 15 Dating Insights newsletter. Now, it may sound pretty obvious… heck,it might even sound like I’m telling you how to ‘suck eggs’.
However, how often have you been in the situation of wanting to date and wanting to meet a great guy so badly that you turn yourself inside out trying to please?
I bet you’ve done it cos I know I have! You know, I get it too. I understand why you think you need to do that.
So why does finding the right man seem so difficult?
Here’s the thing… Mr Drop Dead Gorgeous comes along. Wow, you think, what I’d give to be dating that guy. He’s super hot and oh my goodness he’s showing some interest in me!
This is where it all goes wrong. The second Mr Wonderful shows a scrap of interest in us we do back flips to try to show him how wonderful we are and to try to increase his desire to want to date us. We are so obsessed with finding the right man we don’t even see what we are doing.
We take every opportunity to show him how funny we are, what great cooks we are, how talented we are in the bedroom… the list goes on and it’s almost like we’ve taken dating to the level of an Olympic Sport. So does that mean that finding the right man is now only in the realms of the super prepared, ultra dating fit and savvy women of the world? No it’s not but there are a few things we need to do to up our chances of finding the right man.
Firstly, we need to lean back a little and let the process run its natural course but of course we are usually in there guns a blazing trying desperately to control the outcome. Ha, and if you are a control freak like me you will be even worse at this. What we don’t realize as we are doing this is that we are galloping right over his masculine role.
As a man it’s his job to chase us and if you take this away from him, well, in most cases boredom will set in and you will be yesterday’s news in no time at all.
If you allow him to play his part in the game of love and settle back to enjoy being pursued by this gorgeous hunk of masculinity then you stand a much better chance of getting things out of the starting gates. Remember too, finding the right man isn’t a sprint. If you truly want someone special in your life for the long haul treat it more like an endurance event.
When it comes to dating it vitally important, no matter what you do in the rest of your life, that YOU step back into your feminine role. You be the girl and let your guy be the man.
The masculine and feminine roles in our lives do cross over from time to time and especially so if you have a high powered career. Learning to bring back and work in your feminine self will bring you a lovely masculine man.
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