So you are committed to him, and now you want to get him to commit to you. Maybe he has been stalling. You are feeling discouraged and you may begin to wonder exactly where your relationship is going. May I suggest you have it backwards a bit?
I speak with women who are consumed by their relationships. They spend a lot of time decoding the signals and messages of men, looking for justifications for staying and hope that she will get him to commit. My question is how committed are you to yourself in this process. The key to getting a commitment really does lie in first committing to yourself. If you are living your life hoping that this one certain man will commit to you, it really doesn’t reflect your commitment to your self. Your focus is on what he can give you. If our well being lies in what we get from someone else, how committed to yourself are you really?
Like attracts like. If that is true, and I believe it is, then it only stands to reason that to get him to commit, or any sort of commitment in life, you must be a match as in be committed to yourself first.